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Why do people even get boyfriends/girlfriends when they're young if there's so much hooking out they might be missing out on? Why would you let one person be your first time and your only person you've done it with?
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Anonymous 3w

They seek love. You seek lust.

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Anonymous 3w

Because to me sex isn’t so much a pastime as it is something special that you do with someone you really trust. Doing it with a ton of people defeats the purpose, and it creates a culture where people use each other for their bodies without caring more beyond that.

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Anonymous 3w

i had 10 bodies by 16 thats enough

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Anonymous 3w

Some people find their person and aren’t into sex as much for their own personal reasons. Same way how I can tell you why aren’t you looking for someone now to get your goals straight for life? You could be missing out on making a family and being emotionally and financially set up with your person but you’re blowing money into empty chimneys in a forest. Not saying I don’t agree with hook up culture but some people want one thing and some don’t. It’s just the way it is. Lmk if ur dtf

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

No, it's that I have zero sexual experience and I'd like to actually enjoy it since I used to have a medical contrition that made it painful

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

I couldn't hoe around in my teen years like everyone else, so now I have to experience it when I'm supposed to be "finding love"

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Your problem is that you’re generalizing everyone “hoes” around. That’s simply not true. The stories you hear, the people you see- that is an echo chamber. You either seek lust or love. Many people who “unintentionally” hoe around, pretend to seek love but give themselves up too soon or use their body to feel accepted. Or, there’s people who intentionally hoe around or manipulate people’s search for love to get physical with them.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Then why are you worried about “so much hooking up they might be missing out on” when you haven’t had a single sexual experience? Genuine question that you need to answer within yourself first. You’re worried about the broader context before even finding what it means to you, yourself. Also- Do you fear missing out, or do you feel left out- two different things

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