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I’m black and am nervous about dating a white girl
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Anonymous 5w

Pay attention to the subtleties fs but be sus until you have a reason to

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Anonymous 5w

Make sure her parents aren’t racists. Ain’t no telling how many stories I done heard. They’ll laugh and keke in yo face but say the grossest things when your gone.

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Anonymous 5w

I’m white and felt the same at first dating a black girl, but once we went on first date all the nerves went away

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Anonymous 5w

Why 😂

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Anonymous 5w

Definite concern. Especially if you’re in one of the red(neck) states

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

What were you nervous about if you don’t mind me asking

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I’m curious as well. For me it’s honestly black women judging me. It’s very irrational.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Imma take this advice!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I get the feeling fs, odds are she’s chill af especially if she’s wanting to commit. Def was in your shoes my last relationship and the nerves went away pretty quickly

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Just different cultural backgrounds.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Only a small amount of black women will judge you, and although this hurts they don’t represent a majority at all most black women will be more concerned than hateful and even more won’t care at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Do you feel accepted?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Yes. Was more wondering if it progressed and meeting her family and wondering how they react.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I’d say it’s a mixed bag tbh, my sister dated a white guy and they together a while and his whiteness was irrelevant UNTIL the relationship started to deteriorate and all of a sudden certain people found it relevant asf

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

*were

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