What help do you need?

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don’t change yourself for your type, but change in ways that make you confident. don’t wear things just bc it’s trendy, wear things that flatter your body type. figure out your season/color palette to find what compliments your eyes, hair, and skin. if you like doing makeup, make it highlight the things you want people to notice rather than use it to hide the things you don’t. if you feel good, you’ll look good!!

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Literally same

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I’m a guy who has struggled with this same thing. But one thing that made me feel a little better is considering the math for pretty much everybody. Assuming a symmetrical normal distribution (meaning in the best case scenario), at least 50% of all the people who are attracted to you will be less attractive than you. You’re attracted to more attractive people, but so is everyone else. So most people will get hit on most of the time by less attractive people. Not a perfect fix, but comforting.

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Then either you have to change things about yourself, change things about who you go for, or just stay single until someone you like likes you back. If you don’t want to stay single then do something about the first two. If you’re fine with where you’re at stick with the third.

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Immoral people search for immoral things. Focus less on attraction and more on connection.

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lower your standards i fear

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