Ask Anything on Yik Yak | Is it a red flag if my bf dislikes when I send reels? Like if my man spammed reels to me, I would be so happy and watch all of them because it means he’s thinking of me.

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Is it a red flag if my bf dislikes when I send reels? Like if my man spammed reels to me, I would be so happy and watch all of them because it means he’s thinking of me.

Anonymous 3w

It definitely depends on the person. I really dislike someone sending me a ton of videos at once because I don’t want to spend that amount of time looking at short form content. Also I feel like for some people in my life it’s replaced real conversations which is just annoying. I don’t want to see ten reels that you found funny I want to hear about how your week has been.

Anonymous 3w

Is he at work? Exactly how many per day are you sending? It’s nice but there are limits

Anonymous 3w

I like a few but a lot is kinda stressful tbh. It makes it go from a fun form of connection to graded homework, almost like a performance. Sometimes I don’t have time for it and it makes me feel guilty but also stresses me the hell out

Anonymous 3w

my boyfriend sends me SO MANY and tbh i dont ever check my insta dm’s so i dont see them. we started just watching them together when we see eachother every weekend and its really nice! he likes to rewatch them and i get scroll time after a long drive

Anonymous 2w

lol no. as a woman, if someone spams me with reels i don’t watch them. it’s annoying. send like 3 or 4 at most and then no more until he responds

Anonymous 3w

See I have the opposite issue I be sending reels as a form of communication with people I like and my girlfriend just doesn’t watch them it pisses me off so much but every time I bring it up she’s says I’m saving them up to watch them all. I get it I don’t always watch reels when they arrive and have had up to 20 backed up in a few chats at once but I always go back to watch them. I don’t think she’s opened our chats in over 2 months or notice that im barely sending anything now

Anonymous

#4 3w

I mean i’ll send a few like 4-5 times a week which i guess is a lot. i’m trying to not feel like i need to go from 100 to 0 but I kinda got sad yesterday when he suggested i should send less

Anonymous

#5 3w

this is a good way of putting it. i guess with the amount i send it could feel like this. what would be a healthy amount do you think?

Anonymous

#2 3w

i mean we do have conversations but i feel like i express a lot of things through reels since we’re not together during the summer but how do i filter what i should be refraining from sending?

Anonymous

OP 3w

Again really depends on the person. I think you have to ask him how many is too many and what kind of reels do you find the most enjoyable to receive from me?

Anonymous

OP 3w

Honestly I think that depends on the people involved. Sorry I can’t give a straight answer, but you’d have to ask him

Anonymous

#8 3w

we literally put out stuff down and go “soooo… tiktoks and reels??”