Sounds like y’all might not be the best match atm?

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Can’t make him tbh

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I feel that so heavy girl, same exact issue with my ex, and it was so damn frustrating to watch. Nothing i said or did could change his outlook or behavior, always an “ill figure it out later” or “i’ll do it later” until he dropped out of school, quit his job, and started having that same attitude w our relationship. I really loved him and saw so much of his potential, but eventually js had to wake up and break up.

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It just doesn’t seem like he’s ready to be responsible in his own life/w himself much less a relationship. It’s not your job to mommy him. However, if you are looking to try and fix things, maybe consider having a serious talk w him, sit him down and explain that this isn’t working for you if you haven’t already, and you’re not going to stick around unless there is real solid change. Also, if you haven’t been dating for super long and don’t completely know his mental ins-and outs consider

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he’s your boyfriend, not your husband. what do you expect him to provide? what do you give in return?

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