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Ask Anything 22h

can girls and guys just be friends?

Anonymous 22h

If you’re a mature person yes

Anonymous 19h

as a lesbian yes. this question has always been weird to me because i’m friends with men and women and don’t feel attraction just because of their gender?

Anonymous 19h

Most of my close friends at college are guys, I’m a girl. Nothing weird has ever come of it, we didn’t choose friends based on gender

Anonymous 21h

Yes especially if you’re not attracted to them

Anonymous 22h

Yes I have a few long term female friends where there is no sense it will get sexual. But also two long term female friends have become fwbs.

Anonymous 22h

yeah

Anonymous 22h

Yes

Anonymous 3h

Of course, but I feel weird sometimes when I start having slight feelings towards my friends because of that kind of stuff, like I have plenty of friends I have no attraction to but in the back of my mind I feel like I’m becoming that guy who can’t be just friends (even though I know that’s very much not true)

Anonymous 22h

It has to be the guys choice for it to stay platonic or a situation where there would be social consequences if it veered from the friendship

Anonymous 20h

Yes, but being too close is forbidden in the book of romance 😂

Anonymous 16h

Yes. I may be an anomaly but as a lesbian woman my best friend is my first bf ever that lasted like 3 months- we ended up going to college at the same place and we’ve been best friends since

Anonymous 16h

Pulling my binoculars out to look for Harry and sally

Anonymous 14h

In my experience, extremely rarely and never best friends. For almost two decades every single guy friend I’ve ever had has confessed his feelings or faded away, with this year being the only exception and even then only with guys that I have to actively keep at a distance. I’ve noticed that guys specifically struggle to have girls as just friends much more frequently than women do to men.

Anonymous 12h

Nah, cause of em always messes it up

Anonymous 12h

yes

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Anonymous 16h

If it’s 2 couples yes also ik this is harsh but if the girl is ugly then yea (not to be rude)

Anonymous 22h

Yea but there’s usually tension especially if you get along really well. Has always happened to me and the women I’ve been close friends with. Ended up doing things with 2 of them as well at one point… still kept talking to them and hanging out tho 😊

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Anonymous 21h

No, girls will always want that D. It will causes issues. They might not show it but they secretly want it.

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Anonymous

#8 21h

That’s untrue what if the guy is ugly af

Anonymous

#7 21h

They wouldn’t be friends then.

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Anonymous

#8 21h

That’s not true girls are friends with men they don’t find attractive (I know some men aren’t friends with ugly women)

Anonymous

#4 20h

If we’re being honest mature people just hide it better

Anonymous

#7 20h

They secretly getting that D.

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Anonymous

#8 20h

From someone else

Anonymous

#1 19h

So you should go read some books and get off the internet so you don’t become the worst incel chud to ever exist

Anonymous

#12 19h

Just my experience. Sorry if yours is different 😭

Anonymous

#1 19h

My b I came off too strong you prolly just haven’t met the right genuine people

Anonymous

#12 18h

I mean I did they’re older and stuff they’re just horny 😭

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Anonymous

#1 18h

Hide what better? If you’re a mature person then you’ll be able to befriend people of the sex you’re attracted to without viewing them as a sex object

Anonymous

#4 18h

It’s uhh the reverse and I get hit on a lot 😅

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Anonymous

#1 18h

Alright.. again a mature person would be able to see the sex they’re attracted to as more than just options for dating/sex, I have plenty of male and female friends who I just see as friends and nothing more

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Anonymous

#11 16h

Yes but if they were drunk after a party and u were drunk they would totally do it if u proposed😂

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Anonymous

l..__..l 16h

I promise you they would not. I would not. They are like brothers to me

Anonymous

#11 13h

Send them a message and ask them

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Anonymous

#17 13h

Do you really think men just want to bang any woman they interact with? Because that’s kinda weird to think ngl

Anonymous

#11 12h

The majority of single men would sleep with most women they found attractive if given the opportunity. I’d bet good money that if you sent your guy friends a text asking them to come hook up, that at least one of them would say yes

Anonymous

l..__..l 12h

yo stop doing that K2 and nitrous shits frying your brain

Anonymous

#17 12h

So, I know these people better than you do. I guarantee that they would block me and be wildly uncomfortable if I did that, so I am not going to do that to people I consider family.

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Anonymous

#11 12h

Nah just u must not be very attractive not to be rude(all my friends and myself included our friends that are girls that we don’t want to sleep with just are mid lol trust me we talk about trying to get with our friends that our girls 😂

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Anonymous

#18 12h

I’m a straight a student who plays 3 sports and multiple clubs with an internship with Dow jones 😂💪💪

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Anonymous

l..__..l 12h

Good! I’d rather be considered unattractive than have people I consider siblings want to sleep with me!

Anonymous

l..__..l 12h

wow, an internship with Mr. Jones himself? you must be crazy smart

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Anonymous

#2 12h

Ur an idiot just put the fries in the bag 😂

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