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I love my partner but we never have sex. It’s crushing my self confidence and making me feel guilty for the amount of attraction I feel towards people not in our relationship.
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Anonymous 5w

have you talked to them about it?

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Anonymous 5w

Sex is not what the whole relationship is about. If you feel your relationship outside of sex is thriving, that is amazing! Have you talked about eventually becoming intimate or if they are waiting for something? If you feel attraction towards other people, it is likely because your partner isn’t making you feel valued in the relationship. Try speaking about your love languages or other ways to show affection

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Anonymous 4w

You have to build yourself. Don’t rely on anyone else.

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Anonymous 5w

I started cheating filled that void

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