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I need a male perspective my ex stopped putting effort into our relationship so I left him now he’s saying to people that we’re on and off even though I left and haven’t contacted him since what does this mean
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Anonymous 12w

His ego is bruised from you leaving so he's trying to make it sound like a mutual thing and not you making your own decision

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Anonymous 12w

Yeah he’s trying to make it seem like he wasn’t broken up with to save face. It doesn’t mean he actually wants to be on and off or that he wants you back if that’s what you were wondering.

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Anonymous 12w

Just ignore him. He can’t do shit.

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Anonymous 12w

Hes hurt you left him and just trying to make it seem like the whole thing doesn’t phase him that its not even something serious he worries about. Hes actually distraught and thats his only cope cause he doesn’t wanna look like a loser after having been left so hes just tryna be cool

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Omg I’m a woman I just realized you said a male perspective. Doesn’t have to be a male to understand what he’s doing though

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

Hey guys he sent me a long ass paragraph last night saying he loves me and it’s mixed messages

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Speaking from experience, that means the other girl he was talking to didn't want to make it more serious

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