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chat i just broke up with my HS->college boyfriend of 4years, and even though i initiated it why do i feel so shitty and like a shell of a person 😀
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Anonymous 4w

Uh its a break up. IDK about a shell of a person

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Anonymous 4w

You feel empty cuz you always felt like a part of a whole with your now-ex, and a void in your life developed where he used to be

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Anonymous 4w

Fill that new time with friends and activities. It’ll suck, but also it’ll pass

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

definitely true; just gotta relearn that its fine being by myself 😤🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Why didn't you learn upfront it's always ok to be by yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

notice how i said RElearn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Why though? That's something that shouldn't be relearned. I could see if you were married actually out of the game for a long time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

4 yrs in a relationship at your age isn't a long time. How could being away from the game put you in a mindset where you think being alone isn't ok?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

dude literally what, its almost like i was and still am growing up. idk how u expect literal teenagers to be so sure of themselves. its almost like everyones different and can become different while in a relationship 🤯

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

i think your misunderstanding what i said; i never said nor think being alone ISNT ok, it was more so coming from an aspect that its way lonelier than i thought itd be also i wrote this the day of a 4year breakup so cut me some slack damn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I tried. I already knew you were going to get defensive talking shit to me. When I just asked you a question. I knew I should've skipped asking you any fucking thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

idk why YOUR getting defensive , literally read my latest reply, i think your misunderstanding or misinterpreting what i said

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

lmao not them deleting there comments after a simple back and forth 🤣

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