Just from my perspective it’s because the men who typically complain about such things irl tend to be rude or objectify me. Then they use the “male loneliness epidemic” as an excuse for as to why they’re single instead of taking accountability for their behavior and actions. That’s why when men say things online I kind of make assumptions, it’s based off my previous interactions. Like 8 times out of 10 the men who say things like that don’t realize themselves how they treat women. But idk

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