
I’m similar. Asexual but not sex repulsed. I was upfront about it with my bf before we started dating. We’ve been together 2 years and do stuff only every few months (I’m rarely interested and often have pain associated with doing anything) and he’s fine. He has 2 hands and can use them if the feeling strikes him. Hes always very communicative if he does though, not that I usually want or need that info.