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A year ago my boyfriend and I were long distance. He said he saw a porn clip on Twitter and it has a link to onlyfans to finish the clip. He paid to watch the rest and then deleted the account. Is this cheating? Do I stay with him?
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Anonymous 1w

Not cheating. Because cheating is having a relationship outside the confines of the agreed upon rules and boundaries within the partnership Anyway, I think it’s less about him doing it and more about what he’s done since go make sure it doesn’t happen again (if it’s agreed it breaks a rule you’ve communally established in the relationship)

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Anonymous 1w

He just told me about it happening because he said he felt so guilty

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Anonymous 1w

Oh I don’t think it is

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Anonymous 1w

not cheating imo but up to you what you do about it beyond that

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Anonymous 1w

Watching porn in a relationship is definitely cheating It can be worked through but that will take trust and forgiveness. If it’s an addiction he wants to stop you can help hold him accountable But porn is very very descriptive. Breeds lust, and is very harmful in any ahh any relationship

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Anonymous 1w

Controversial take: I think watching porn while in a relationship is a form of cheating.

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Anonymous 1w

watching porn in a relationship is cheating. they shouldn’t be getting pleasure from someone else’s body.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

And I know you’ve never been in a relationship before

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

It’s ok for us to have differences in opinions without making false assumptions :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

*Destructive

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