Anonymous #2 7w

What was the situation?

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Anonymous #1 7w

Yeah I agree to a level depends on the situation tbh and connection

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Anonymous OP 7w

About a year into our relationship I found out his ex had been coercing him into having sex with her when he had visitation with his kids. And we celebrated our 6 year anniversary in February and currently just saving up money for the wedding so

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Anonymous #2 7w

Thats insane the ex did that wow. But hey it took a lot for you to get that working and thats true love and impressive. Congratulations on 6 years and many more to come. Hope you have the most beautiful wedding day

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Anonymous OP 7w

Thank you 😄 I’ve always been a big communication person anyway, so working on rebuilding trust through communication wasn’t a massive change or anything. It does help to have a very strong relationship first…but usually strong relationships don’t really have fuck ups big enough to need second chances. But everyone’s different! If you wanna stick it out stick it out. Worst case scenario you learn what type of person to avoid in the future, and that’s still a good thing in the end

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Anonymous #2 6w

Thats great because communication doesn’t come easy and for me tbh its not even natural. I just bottle things up or avoid them. Always a good foundation helps no matter what. Thats the real part “if you want to stick it out, you stick it out.” Most people don’t do that anymore. True guess theres always a lesson to learn in situations

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Anonymous OP 6w

It doesn’t come easy for him either. He was abused heavily by his dad before his parent divorced, was a victim of emotional incest and other abuses from his mom, and got stuck with a very abusive woman who baby trapped him super young. He never had an opportunity to be allowed to do that. But he’s gotten so much better and he’s just so happy and I kinda cry a bit when I think about the wonderful person he’s started to become bc he’s not scared anymore

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