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I am a 29-year-old female who has only ever been attracted to guys sexually emotionally but I Met this girl who has me feeling some type of way, I want to be near her, I want to talk to her, she gives me butterflies, never attracted to women, HELP WHY?
#advice#confused
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Anonymous 1w

This is your life. If you want to explore something new that’s up to you. Don’t let anyone judge you for that. There’s nothing wrong with being attracted to another woman

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Anonymous 1w

I know it’s not wrong, it’s just confusing it’s just this one specific girl not any other, she got me all messed up in my head,

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Anonymous 1w

I'm the same way. But if I met a chick and she hit me like that I'd at least explore it. I'd tell her the truth this is my first rodeo with this. All you can do is genuinely give my friendship and love to her and see what happens

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Anonymous 1w

You should never be confused about someone you genuinely connect with

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Anonymous 1w

I have no advice but nothing wrong with a little exploration

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Anonymous 1w

Sometimes people just click. I know I’m not a lesbian inherently, but there’s been a few women in my life that I have been very attracted to even could consider them as a relationship if it ever went that way life is so fluid let it happen if it feels right

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Anonymous 1w

It’s totally normal to be confused but don’t let it stop you from finding happiness

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Anonymous 1w

Hello! I think you have to decide whether these feelings are romantic or not. And btw I think heart fluttering and thinking sm one is amazing and cool is kinda normal! I totally understand what you’re saying though. I personally think you should acknowledge that these feelings are present and move and grow in a healthy way. Me personally, I believe God doesn’t want people to engage in homosexual relationships, so I think it depends on what discern is right and go from there.

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Anonymous 1w

Me too

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Anonymous 1w

awe

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Anonymous 1w

stop

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Anonymous 1w

Wtf is wrong with you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Why?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Wdym? What’s wrong with what she said?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Try it out you only live once make the most of it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 1w

Should message me we can work through it together 😮‍💨

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