Ask Anything on Yik Yak | Whenever I get aroused, I try to make a move, but she shuts me down, saying, “Not now.” She gives me an excuse, saying she’s tired, has a headache, and her body is sour. She doesn’t make a move herself until I get sad. Then, we have sex. However, if I don’t make a move, sometimes it can be a month before she does.

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Whenever I get aroused, I try to make a move, but she shuts me down, saying, “Not now.” She gives me an excuse, saying she’s tired, has a headache, and her body is sour. She doesn’t make a move herself until I get sad. Then, we have sex. However, if I don’t make a move, sometimes it can be a month before she does.

Anonymous 18h

Idk why but she doesn’t wanna have sex with you, and you moping about it almost definitely doesn’t help. There’s probably something else going on in the relationship that makes her feel this way, assuming that it hasn’t been like this the whole time

Anonymous 13h

Talk to her. If she doesn’t respect your view and compromise., then you have a decision to make. Every day after that, the fault will be yours for not moving on.

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Anonymous 18h

Tell her it’s bothering u and you don’t know how much longer u can deal with this

Anonymous 15h

Have a conversation. Like just talk to her and she doesn’t have to have sex with you. if she’s telling you she doesn’t respect that.

Anonymous

#2 17h

I give her everything she wants without question. Her priorities always come first—we eat where she wants, go where she wants—so I honestly don't know what's going wrong between us.

Anonymous

beestboy 17h

I talked to her about our physical intimacy, and she flipped it on me saying I wasn't interested. I told her that's not true—I'm always the one initiating, while she never makes a move. Every time we fight about it, she tries for maybe a couple of days before slipping right back into her old behavior

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OP 17h

Sounds like she’s cheating and projecting twin. You should try seeking the real answer or just break up with her

Anonymous

beestboy 16h

Honestly, I tried my best to fix things and never got clarity. Being single again is the last thing I want, but this is frustrating.

Anonymous

OP 16h

She might just not like you bro. It doesn’t have to be your fault, but from my very limited knowledge, that’s what it looks like

Anonymous

#3 14h

So she should tell me she is like i like it you don’t like to have 🙄