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Can I make a relationship work in college? He lives an hour and a half away but we both have cars and only have classes tuesdays and Thursday. Both of us don’t mind driving. He’s also three years older than me so our lives are very different. I’m stuck.
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Anonymous 8w

How are your lives different?

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Anonymous 8w

Seems like a doable situation

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Anonymous 8w

Sounds very simple to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Well he’s old enough to drink and lives alone so he’s always out with his friends. Even though he doesn’t drink. My parents are strict and I have to work around ways to do more things when I’m home. I live with my parents at home where he lives but obviously not in college. I think in college it will be different because we both will be out. He is just very independent and so am I. He also plays a sport so he’s usually doing that too. Meanwhile I’m not really that athletic but I workout.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

dont jeopardize ur relationship or trust with ur parents, if u think ur gonna have to be sneaking around to meet up with this dude and stuff it isn’t worth it!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

We aren’t in a relationship and I’m not sneaking around to see him I never said that. I just said that I work around things to see him. They don’t care if im in a relationship, my mom is just extremely nosey and wants me to get back together with my ex so I’m avoiding her backlash.

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