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Can someone pls give me advice? I told this girl I want to get to know her better before we become best friends who call every day, create a podcast, friendship ig account, and write letters to each other (I’ve spoken to her for like 2 days) 😭😭😭
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I told this girl I want to get to know her better before we become best friends who call every day, create a podcast, friendship ig account, and write letters to each other (I’ve spoken to her for like 2 days) 😭😭😭"
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Anonymous 14w

Is this like friendship love bombing

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Anonymous 14w

Are you guys preteens 💀💀💀💀

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Anonymous 14w

Idkkkk kinda off putting but ig it could be me not understanding others cultures like if it’s normal where they’re from

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Anonymous 14w

What on earth

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Anonymous 14w

I’ve tried really hard to articulate my feelings to her politely, but she keeps circling back around to being “besties and sissies” 🫠

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Anonymous 14w

she got BPD

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

I’m pretty sure it’s a cultural difference. She lives in another country and is very overly friendly. I’m not someone who considers people to be close to me until I’ve known them for some time

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

That’s how I feel about it It doesn’t feel like she’s being disingenuous, but with everything she’s asking of me, I just feel really uncomfortable

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

this is interesting to me because Americans are generally viewed as some of the most outgoing/overly friendy (to strangers) people worldwide. even if this girl is Canadian, i cant think of a culture where this would be normal (since it seems like a lot even by US standards). -american 19F international studies major

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

How old are you guys, really? Because your own idea of best friends meaning you call each other every day, create a podcast together, make an ig account about your friendships, and write letters to each other is so infantile and childish you don’t seem so different from her yourself.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Those are not my ideas Those are her’s I forgot to include quotation marks in my original post I don’t particularly want to do any of those things, in fact, but she is incredibly insistent Frankly, no one here has given any good advice on what to do, and I wanted to find an alternative solution, but if she keeps bothering me, I do plan to just block her

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Btw, you seem like a real ray of sunshine, but you could use some advice: never assume things because it makes an ass out of u and me :)

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