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My bf never wants to cuddle should I be concerned? He says he just doesn’t like it but idk there’s some times when he lets me but it’s very rare and doesn’t last long before he moves away I’m starting to think he just doesn’t like cuddling with me
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Anonymous 3w

How is he about other types of touch and touching other people? Some people just aren’t touchy.

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Anonymous 3w

Don’t expect to change him

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Anonymous 3w

If that’s something you need and he’s not interested in, I wouldn’t pursue the relationship. It’s okay to be incompatible, it’s not okay to make each other uncomfortable or insecure.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

He likes hugging holding my hand or having his hand on my thigh when he drives loves it when I sit in his lap and he loves to hug me from behind and kiss my neck just to distract me from whatever I’m doing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Maybe he’s just not a cuddler. My Dad is like that, actually. Shows affection in tons of ways but laying down is his time and he don’t wanna be touched, ESPECIALLY while he sleeps 😅 if everything else is going smoothly in the relationship, just let him know even if it isn’t on purpose that’s how he’s making you feel so he can better explain his side of things and yall can find a compromise

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