wing_leader on Yik Yak | I believe that trust and communication are the foundations to a healthy relationship. If I have to ask to look through your phone then I can’t see myself with you. Thoughts?

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wing_leader

I believe that trust and communication are the foundations to a healthy relationship. If I have to ask to look through your phone then I can’t see myself with you. Thoughts?

Anonymous 6d

I agree, my last relationship ended because we didn’t communicate, it’s a shame because everything was great

Anonymous 6d

So do you want to be offered his phone to see through? I agree trust and communication are a must but the phone part threw me off

Anonymous 6d

How far into the relationship? ASAP? Or like within a few months? What’s the timeline?

Anonymous

#1 6d

I’m sorry to hear that, communication is definitely important. I’m just having a hard time understanding why some people that I know or people I’ve spoken to, told me that they can’t give their partner their phone… and I’m like what? Why?

Anonymous

#2 6d

I believe once a relationship is established for both parties. I don’t believe in looking at my partner’s phone at all. What I’m saying is, I don’t want to feel like I have to. The trust is just there.

Anonymous

wing_leader 6d

Ohhhhh gotcha. Like you don’t want that slight hunch. Understandable. That’s something you can EASILY sense. I totally get it:)

Anonymous

#3 6d

I see the confusion. No, I don’t believe in looking at my partners phone at all. If my man starts acting off if I try to add a song to a playlist while he is driving, or check the time on his phone and he tries to grab it from me or if he is walking out to take calls or text someone on his phone then that’ll make me feel he is hiding something from me. I don’t want to feel like I can’t trust my man and have to feel the need to ask about his phone. Make sense?

Anonymous

#2 6d

Exactly 🫶🏻

Anonymous

wing_leader 6d

I gotchu wing😉