Anonymous #1 1d

Yeah but if it’s alllll the time

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Anonymous OP 1d

Should be fine with it if he’s a good partner

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Anonymous OP 1d

That can get tiring. And having ur bf be your therapist really sucks

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Anonymous #2 1d

Can you tell me why please

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Anonymous OP 1d

Like realistically what does it do to a guy when that happens a lot

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Anonymous OP 1d

At the end of the day it really depends on your partner. Every guy is going to be different and react differently and handle things differently, that’s why it’s best to just actually talk to him about it

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Anonymous #1 1d

I’m curious to hear a man’s perspective

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Anonymous OP 1d

I am a man 😭

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Anonymous OP 1d

I mean in general people get fatigued if you repeat the same negative pattern incessantly. It’s ok to bring it up, express yourself and then work to move forward. But just stagnating is not attractive. You don’t have to make progress, but you need to be trying. This is all opinion btw, everyone is different as others have said. But like I’ve been broken up with for just crying before, so I might be biased lmao.

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Anonymous OP 20h

my gf was like this and it’s like ok. if you bring it up daily or every other day and you aren’t listening to my advice or taking any steps to help yourself then it’s annoying and nagging asf.

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