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Be honest, could you be in a romantic relationship with someone who chooses to abstain from sex?
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Anonymous 6w

Yes

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Anonymous 6w

Yes. As long as she’s not hiding something. I knew a girl who decided to wait till marriage because she caught herpes and thought if she was married he’d love her regardless. She was wrong.

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Anonymous 6w

yeah cause I don’t wanna :( that seems crazy

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Anonymous 6w

yeah

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Anonymous 6w

I’m waiting for marriage so if my man wants to wait then that’s a good sign for me

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Anonymous 6w

Yeah as long as they’re honest about it. I don’t want to make them uncomfortable and I have to trust that they’ll tell me if they are

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Anonymous 6w

Yes, I actively am. We’re both abstaining until marriage.

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Anonymous 6w

No

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Anonymous 6w

Maybe, but that’s just because I have a medical condition. If that condition went away I would have second thoughts.

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Anonymous 6w

yeah for a relationship but not for the person I marry

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Anonymous 6w

Not unless I could go see other people for that on the side tbh which I wouldn’t want to do

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

That’s crazy 😳

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6w

Yea. She told him the morning after the wedding - they didn’t have sex yet. They stayed married for a bit but he felt that she manipulated him and has the marriage annulled after a month.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 6w

if “abstain” here means abstain indefinitely (even after marriage)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Not sure what’s wrong with this take

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

guessing ppl just don’t read the full sentence

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 6w

Common on here tbh

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