Yes. As long as she’s not hiding something. I knew a girl who decided to wait till marriage because she caught herpes and thought if she was married he’d love her regardless.
She was wrong.
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Anonymous6w
yeah cause I don’t wanna :( that seems crazy
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Anonymous6w
yeah
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Anonymous6w
I’m waiting for marriage so if my man wants to wait then that’s a good sign for me
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Anonymous6w
Yeah as long as they’re honest about it. I don’t want to make them uncomfortable and I have to trust that they’ll tell me if they are
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Anonymous6w
Yes, I actively am. We’re both abstaining until marriage.
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Anonymous6w
No
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Anonymous6w
Maybe, but that’s just because I have a medical condition. If that condition went away I would have second thoughts.
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Anonymous6w
yeah for a relationship but not for the person I marry
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Anonymous6w
Not unless I could go see other people for that on the side tbh which I wouldn’t want to do
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Anonymous#36w
That’s crazy 😳
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Anonymous#66w
Yea. She told him the morning after the wedding - they didn’t have sex yet. They stayed married for a bit but he felt that she manipulated him and has the marriage annulled after a month.
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Anonymous#126w
if “abstain” here means abstain indefinitely (even after marriage)