I can’t stress enough how much time I wasted chasing after people who didn’t really care about me. Literally one situationship was 10 months. We were long distance over the summer and he said after I moved back to college and we got to hang out for a bit he’d wanna date, but he never committed even though he told me about his exes. So if he wanted to, he would… now I’ve got a loving bf who actually cares about me and makes time for us. Totally different than the guys I was talking to before

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he added me back after seeing me on campus and we went back tot calling like before everything chill all forgiven. went to his frat party he got drunk and i offered to bring him home ( whole convo over text because he didn’t see me at the party before i left) went to his house to pick him up he said they wouldn’t let him leave so i went home it was whatever

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Hi! I’m not in this situation but I would say best thing is to communicate!! Can’t stress it enough. In person is the best option. If he was really a nice guy he’d be honest. But also if you have doubts is it really worth it? Like there’s other fish in the sea yk? Dm if you need anything

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Tbh, drop him. I’ve had way too many situationships and I always had a gut feeling it wasn’t gonna work out but was trying to believe the best about people and wouldn’t let go no matter what. They were always “the nice guy” and would seemingly only talk to me and introduce me to their friends and come hang out with mine, but at the end of the day all the times they were “busy” they weren’t, they just didn’t wanna put in any effort

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next day he got locked out his dorm so he spent the night at my apartment it was great he was sweet we didn’t do anything he was super respectful and we went about our day the next morning. found out through the tea app a girl says he and her got tg the weekend he spent the night at my apartment and that after he snapped her from a diff girls bed (most likely mine)

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do i bring this up to him and ask him about it or ask him if he’s seeing other girls while we’re talking and hanging out. i really like him and am just worried she was just someone he was talking to while we’re weren’t talking and is over that now since he was obviously rude and stuff to her. am i crazy for thinking maybe since he doesn’t do stuff with me he wants smth more serious with me or should i run for the hills because he’s got some overlap going on idk what to do

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and he like snaps me constantly all the time we’re number 1 bsfs and ik for a fact he leaves everyone on opened i’ve seen his snap and i was the only one he actively doesn’t leave on open and responds to at least before we had stopped talking

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