
You should talk about it. Me and my partner have been together for two years and I made them wait until I was ready. I had planned on waiting until marriage but I changed my mind. However, we were and still are an extremely and healthy couple before and after. If your partner is religious or has gone through sa/grape then just be patient because it can be hard to be ready. If you love them, then I would advise to just keep being patient and maybe talk a little more about your future.
If my man came to me prior to the break up and said our lack of sex life is really hurting me and I would really like to fix it instead of just leaving without communicating, I would have gone to sex therapy for him. I’m encouraging you to talk to your girl because maybe, like me she has trauma, and is just scared and simply doesn’t know how to relax and be open