Anonymous #1 18h

For 6 months

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Anonymous #2 18h

Does it? I just feel like I’m the other woman and it feels horrible but technically I’m allowed to see other people and idk where are headed but I’m not sure what to do

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Anonymous OP 18h

genuinely hard to believe a poly person didn't mention it immediately

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Anonymous #1 17h

He didn’t until last night and now I’m freaking out and aaahhhh

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Anonymous OP 17h

Well yes you are the other woman in this case, but I say that loosely considering the main is also poly. I suspect he already knows the expiration date on that relationship so if you like him like that and if things seem genuine when you guys hang, I dont see a reason to cut it off completely

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Anonymous #2 17h

I’m just sad and nauseous

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Anonymous OP 17h

well he was definitely making a conscious decision to hide it, which you should probably ask him about

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Anonymous #3 14h

No but he never said he was poly and had a gf!!!! The entire time not even once did he mention her!!!

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Anonymous OP 11h

I get that it was a surprise, but did he break any promises or agreements?

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Anonymous OP 10h

Like if he was casually hooking up with someone else but wasn’t dating them/wasn’t poly, would that have been a problem?

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Anonymous #3 6h

No, I wouldn’t feel like I was the other woman cause no one has a “title” yk

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Anonymous #3 6h

Yes, we agreed to tell each other about other hookups or if we wanted other partners

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Anonymous OP 4h

Ok yeah fuck him

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