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Does anyone else feel like the backup friend? Or like they’re always a b group friend and never an a group friend or never a best friend?
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Anonymous 17w

Damn aint no way it got downvoted lmao

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Anonymous 17w

And all that BS is why I don't have friends like that

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Anonymous 17w

It’s generally easy to ignore but today was my bday and none of my friends did an Instagram story post for me today which is fine because I don’t generally post things like that either(I post like once a year) but they all do it for everyone else and for some of them I’ve literally helped throw their birthday parties and stuff like that so I just feel a lil forgotten

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Anonymous 17w

Yes unfortunately you probably just don’t push yourself out there as much as group a. I’ve been both. I know how it be fr like if you loud and funny niggas gone care yeard.

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Anonymous 17w

I’m with you! Planned the biggest bachelorette party I never wanted to attend, last year. I was supposed to have help, but the others wouldnt bother. Now I’m left out of the group chats between those others. It sucks, people are weird, and there are lots of people on this planet

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Anonymous 17w

Yea my whole family is in a group chat without me

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Anonymous 17w

The last time I allowed anyone to make me feel like that I was 12

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

Teach me your ways bro idk how to break the cycle

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

If a person questions my character, I'm out

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

Yeah that honestly tracks. I’m also one of the few stem students in most of my friend groups and so I have a harder time being around all the time and I rarely go out so it’s like if you aren’t constantly around then you’re not a main friend lol how have you managed to get out of the group b issues?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

Okay buddy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

Man that really sucks. That’s true though! Have you been able to branch out and find better friends?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Yes, from other circles. It hurts nonetheless.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

That kind of thing will never not hurt. I’ve felt it with all of my friend groups over the years and even with my siblings. I’m not the best at actually reaching out and finding new friends though so I guess I just need to put myself out there more

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Ok buddy nothing. I'm not your buddy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

ive been there before, sometimes you just gotta find new friends even if the ones you have arent "bad" :( happy birthday!! i see you and im proud of you ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17w

Thank you♥️ I appreciate your kind words

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

I’m not your buddy fwend

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Anonymous replying to -> dawn_puzzle_piece02 17w

I’m so sorry, that really sucks of them. I get how you feel

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