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Why can't a man fucking ask and plan a date? Why's this so fucking hard? But you can blurt out you wanna fuck?
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Anonymous 3w

If a man doesn’t ask you out but does mention he wants to fuck, that should tell you everything you need to know. That’s all he wants and if you want more, time to find someone else

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Anonymous 3w

mine plans the cutest dates 🤭

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Anonymous 3w

find a different man, why are you suffering for no reason

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Anonymous 3w

no real some guy took me to the park acting brand new thinking he was gonna get pussy annoying ass

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Anonymous 3w

I can plan out a whole date and an amazing time that does not include fucking! I just don’t have anyone to make plans for

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Anonymous 3w

Since everyone here wants to be a turd, I’ll take you on a date even though I’m a girl because every girl deserves the feeling. Just dm me and lmk

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Anonymous 3w

You do it then! Initiate and ask a dude out!

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Anonymous 3w

Its almost like the guys that want to fuck you are different from the guys that want to have a relationship with you. you choose who you let have access to you in that way. This is a you problem.

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Anonymous 3w

See that's a boy not a man date older and higher expctations

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Anonymous 3w

Because ,he doesn’t want to date u take a hint

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I know all that already thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

So you’re just venting that the only guys you’re interested in have only wanted to fuck you? Got it. Maybe time to reconsider your type then. This sounds more like a you problem because I guarantee there are tons of guys who would take you on a date, you just don’t want those same guys taking you on a date

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Real shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

def real but leave op alone let them vent😭 we all know that frustrations

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

No tf we dont😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

guess ur lucky then but jesus can a person not vent?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Sure but if you put it on socials for attention then don’t expect people not to drop their opinion

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

like seriously what’s ur problem y r u being so mean to someone u don’t even know this is complete projection of some other unrelated frustrations let them be neither of us know ops situation but most ppl have experienced this type of bs w men especially in this generation

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

agreed but there’s no reason to bring someone down more when they’re clearly already down. there’s a way to respectfully disagree. when ppl say “change ur type” or “well i’ve never had that happen” it makes them feel like it’s their fault and not the man’s for taking advantage of someone’s good intentions

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Sure lets say your right for argument sakes but just like kindness is free so is hate so what right do you have to tell me which one I want to spread 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

i’ll be so honest i can’t argue w that but it says more abt u and ur own insecurities when u spread hate and tear down other ppl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I like how you're trying to turn this back around on me that I need to consider a different type or I'm the the problem. How the fuck you gonna tell what type of man I fucking want or don't? The point I was making in all this is about people only wanting to fuck trying to drag me down with their own nasty ass hookup culture. I'm looking for something real

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I'm not going to start fucking someone to maybe hope they want a relationship. That's what I'm annoyed about. Most of y'all are just fucking disgusting meeting up fucking anybody. Thinking a condom is going to save your life. It won't

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Nobody is arguing that you should engage in that. I’m telling you if you want different activity, you clearly need to change something about the people you’re interested. I may have been harsh about it, but again, no one is telling you to engage in hookups. It’s the guys you’re interested in that want it, period.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I know no one's arguing that. They can't. I just said I'm not doing the nasty shit. How do you that I haven't done that either? And you were harsh cause you DK shit about what I've done to try to get what I want. This is from engaging online. We're interested in each other. I literally have on my profile don't fucking reach out if you're only looking for ass

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

I'm not doing their fucking job for them in the beginning. Fuck that! Most of them are fucking lazy AF

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

These men still reach out to me with that I'm looking for friends seeing where it goes. When really that's code for IDK what I want. But hopefully you'll give me some ass if we keep talking. I'm just annoyed with the same bullshit. And I have to go back to ending convos with they say that. I don't have time for the stupid ass fuckery. Just tell the truth instead of trying to string me along

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

That’s fair and if that’s the case that’s on them. There are definitely asswipes out there, I don’t deny that. I hope you find what you’re looking for, I apologize for assuming things but typically that is the case. It still wouldn’t hurt to considering opening yourself up to more people and seeing if it makes a difference

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I've done that already. That's just common sense. Again same ol bullshit. That's why I'm annoyed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Common sense is not always common. Some people are just manipulative, best thing you can do is just move along from them and try not to let them bring you down. Keep your chin up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I know common sense is not a flower that grows in everyone's garden

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

Suffering? 🤣 You got I'm suffering from that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

You're out of you're fucking mind

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I know….. normal, reasonable, logical thinking is always crazy to a delusional crazy person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

I have no idea why you think I'm delusional. Your goofy ass needs to scroll up and read what's really going on. That's if you can read. Otherwise get your illiterate ass off my post. Just leave otherwise I'll make you leave

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Youre delusional because you somehow think someone is “out of their mind” for saying a simple undeniable fact like the guys who just want to fuck are not the same guys that would date you and have a relationship with you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

Let's go with how do you know that? We know you have no fucking facts. You just typing some shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

What makes you out of your fucking mind like we've had drinks at tht bar and you're my fucking friend like you know me? Do you? Personally? Like my fucking name. Are you my fucking friend right now that knows exactly WTFF has happened to me along with my fucking name too?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Lol wut? You good? What i said was admitted by you in your post. YOU said they hit you up to fuck, YOU said they wont ask/plan for a date

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

No bitch you can't read

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

How the fuck did I know you'd type more stupid shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

Holla at me when you learn how to read with comprehension. Otherwise we ain't got shit else to discuss

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I cant read? Maam You said that in pic, youre more delusional than i thought

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Hey man - I do question if it’s truly ‘typically the case’…or if it’s just be the case for the folks around you, 1? You also assumed that OP both 1. has a litany of gentlemen wanting to date them, 2. surely must be rejecting all of them because they ‘just don’t like nice guys’. It was cool of you to apologize to OP. You seem like a cool person. But I’d maybe consider not assuming stuff *so much* negative stuff about folks in general before making jabs like that. I hope I’m not being a jerk.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

Eh - that’s a lovely thing to do! But I also think that if OP doesn’t find that to be an attractive thing to do, that’s also perfectly chill. 🤙

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 3w

Some men like myself would love to go on a date but hey nice guys always finish last right

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 3w

You said that right

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 3w

YAY!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Shall I start?

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 3w

What you mean?

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 3w

Oh that's funny. All I date is older. There's 50 yr old men doing this bullshit

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Shall I start the planning?

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 3w

Why are you asking me?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I will absolutely plan it, just making sure you were down to go with the plans

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 3w

Why are you doing this and you have no idea where I live?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Fair point

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Preach

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

He’s saying that you’re probably going for dudes who just wanna bang you. Start looking for dudes who actually wanna date you.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Ya men are weird from their 35-40 they are at their peak then they start to go down

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 3w

Some of all of them are weird

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