So you’re just venting that the only guys you’re interested in have only wanted to fuck you? Got it. Maybe time to reconsider your type then. This sounds more like a you problem because I guarantee there are tons of guys who would take you on a date, you just don’t want those same guys taking you on a date
agreed but there’s no reason to bring someone down more when they’re clearly already down. there’s a way to respectfully disagree. when ppl say “change ur type” or “well i’ve never had that happen” it makes them feel like it’s their fault and not the man’s for taking advantage of someone’s good intentions
I like how you're trying to turn this back around on me that I need to consider a different type or I'm the the problem. How the fuck you gonna tell what type of man I fucking want or don't? The point I was making in all this is about people only wanting to fuck trying to drag me down with their own nasty ass hookup culture. I'm looking for something real
Nobody is arguing that you should engage in that. I’m telling you if you want different activity, you clearly need to change something about the people you’re interested. I may have been harsh about it, but again, no one is telling you to engage in hookups. It’s the guys you’re interested in that want it, period.
I know no one's arguing that. They can't. I just said I'm not doing the nasty shit. How do you that I haven't done that either? And you were harsh cause you DK shit about what I've done to try to get what I want. This is from engaging online. We're interested in each other. I literally have on my profile don't fucking reach out if you're only looking for ass
These men still reach out to me with that I'm looking for friends seeing where it goes. When really that's code for IDK what I want. But hopefully you'll give me some ass if we keep talking. I'm just annoyed with the same bullshit. And I have to go back to ending convos with they say that. I don't have time for the stupid ass fuckery. Just tell the truth instead of trying to string me along
That’s fair and if that’s the case that’s on them. There are definitely asswipes out there, I don’t deny that. I hope you find what you’re looking for, I apologize for assuming things but typically that is the case. It still wouldn’t hurt to considering opening yourself up to more people and seeing if it makes a difference
Hey man - I do question if it’s truly ‘typically the case’…or if it’s just be the case for the folks around you, 1? You also assumed that OP both 1. has a litany of gentlemen wanting to date them, 2. surely must be rejecting all of them because they ‘just don’t like nice guys’. It was cool of you to apologize to OP. You seem like a cool person. But I’d maybe consider not assuming stuff *so much* negative stuff about folks in general before making jabs like that. I hope I’m not being a jerk.