Ask Anything on Yik Yak | Ughh how do I fix my boundary issues?? I keep making commitments with people when I don’t want to. I feel like such a bitch but my words escape before I actually think about what I’m saying. How do I slow down and not be such a people pleaser??

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Ughh how do I fix my boundary issues?? I keep making commitments with people when I don’t want to. I feel like such a bitch but my words escape before I actually think about what I’m saying. How do I slow down and not be such a people pleaser??

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Anonymous 3w

Get comfortable saying no, if your so preprogrammed just have a friend ask you and then say no, your not an asshole for wanting control over your life, it also helps if you let them down easy with like “sorry not right now” or “could we do it some other day”, saying no doesn’t have to be bitchy

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