Ask Anything on Yik Yak | Is it completely middle school of me to be upset that my “friend” is making moves on the guy I like? I’ve been into him for over a year and she knows. Just bc we aren’t together doesn’t make it cool.

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Is it completely middle school of me to be upset that my “friend” is making moves on the guy I like? I’ve been into him for over a year and she knows. Just bc we aren’t together doesn’t make it cool.

Anonymous 5d

yes its extremely weird. even if you havent made any moves, it doesnt mean its suddenly okay for your friend to go after the guy you like. especially when (presumably) she knows why you havent been able to ‘lock him down’

Anonymous 5d

Yeah. It’s a little immature. Jealousy is not attractive

Anonymous 5d

I had a friend like this. She tried to get with my prom date but he rejected he (She tried to sit on his lap & he literally pushed her tf off) then she hooked up with the guy I had had a crush on for two years & complained that he didn’t reach out to her after even though they never spoke besides when I introduced them. Then a friend told me she slept with my situationship but then they said they were just joking (??). Recently I saw her getting cozy ASF with her friend’s bf. Cut her off.

Anonymous 5d

No, I’d never hit on the guy my friend was interested in. That’s disrespectful and my friend is always more important to me than some guy.

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Anonymous 4d

Making moves how? Like bro lowkey grow up and either mess around with the guy or make it official or wtv bc like if he’s giving her or any other girl attention that is not ur man. That man is for the world. And maybe let’s start talking to him and not put the whole blame on her. YES THIS IS SO MIDDLE SCHOOLL GTFU 🌝

Anonymous 5d

Why haven’t you made any moves on him

Anonymous 5d

In my opinion you’ll end up with who you need to be with. If the guy gets along better with your friend so be it. I would hope she’d let you know but I wouldn’t be trying to call dibs on a guy that’s unfair to everyone involved

Anonymous

og_littlepenis 5d

I have. We literally flirt. We hung out once. And I told him that we’re getting married and everyone knows😂 he said that he wished he knew. I’m 80% he’s also into me as well.

Anonymous

OP 5d

So then lock him down

Anonymous

og_littlepenis 5d

That’s the thing. I can’t.

Anonymous

OP 5d

Why not

Anonymous

og_littlepenis 5d

Some things I’m still working on in therapy

Anonymous

OP 5d

Okay well I hope it all works out for you

Anonymous

#2 5d

Thank you.

Anonymous

#3 5d

I’m not trying to be attractive.

Anonymous

OP 5d

I’m not saying you are. Where did you get that from?

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Anonymous

#3 5d

maybe bc you said it’s not attractive?

Anonymous

#5 5d

Do you people know how to read? Jealousy is a noun. I couldn’t care less about the op

Anonymous

#7 5d

He’s never shown interest in her. Actually quite the opposite. He always seemed put off by her. Also I didn’t call dibs. I just expressed my interest and have for a long time. She expressed disinterest.

Anonymous

#2 5d

I think everyone is perfectly able to be with who they want and be in charge of their own happiness, and nobody has to wait for someone to 'lock down' (a terrible thing to say about a human you want to have a relationship with btw ) who they want, could be infringing on the person you likes potential for happiness as well. Why they gotta be single because you like them? Selfish train of thought IMO.

Anonymous

OP 5d

Well obviously she's showing interest and if he doesn't like her he'll get with you don't worry, she's not gonna ruin you two if you're actually meant to be together.

Anonymous

#8 4d

He doesn’t have to be single bc I like him. It’s just weird to me that my friend would go after him without talking to me. This post isn’t about him. It’s about her

Anonymous

#8 3d

she never said he HAS to be single