Ask Anything on Yik Yak | WARNING: TMI So I tend to space out directly after sex like during it I’m 100% there and everything’s amazing but when we’re done and he goes to clean up and shower, I just zone out and he tells me I look sad and upset but I don’t think I feel sad. Help?

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WARNING: TMI So I tend to space out directly after sex like during it I’m 100% there and everything’s amazing but when we’re done and he goes to clean up and shower, I just zone out and he tells me I look sad and upset but I don’t think I feel sad. Help?

Anonymous 1d

and he doesn't believe you if you say you're not sad?

Anonymous 1d

Ah yes the classic sex coma. Well done you two.

Anonymous 15h

Not trying to tell you how you feel at all, bc ik I’m very much not the barometer for normal, but when I used to do that it’s was bc I felt nothing. I was so zen, but in a weird coping way bc I didn’t actually like sex with him bc it just made me feel used. Alternatively, do you think aftercare would help?

Anonymous 1d

You might have down syndrome

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Anonymous

#2 1d

he does and he doesn’t, because I say I’m not sad and that everything‘s fine but he says my face says something differently and I’m really quiet

Anonymous

OP 1d

he's probably in his own head about it tbh