#1, #7 and #3. This may be a hot take: I think being sexually satisfied has a lot to do with finding your partner attractive. A big part (but not the only) of a relationship is sexual satisfaction. I'm basically trying to say that if I have to pass on satisfaction that the other aspects of a relationship need to be stronger. Either that or I need to be able to find sexual satisfaction elsewhere. I did not expect it to be that hot of a take tbh...