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What if MEN were just nicer to WOMEN?
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Anonymous 12w

The world would be a better place. Just if women were nicer to men, or whites to blacks or blacks to whites. Russians to Ukrainians, Iranians to Israelis Muslims to Jews and Christian’s to Muslims. And all vise versa. A universal increase in kindness would benefit the world immensely. However men are not especially unkind to women in the western world so the specificity of your statement may be erroneous.

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Anonymous 12w

What if everyone was just nicer to everyone

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Anonymous 12w

Sometimes I feel like too nice. Feels like get disregarded. I don’t know how to be to someone I don’t know. I was loved to much as a kid

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Anonymous 11w

I been trying but yall just label me as boring

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Anonymous 12w

What if the world was round

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Anonymous 12w

impossible. their egoes are too huge

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Anonymous 12w

We should be

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Anonymous 12w

it’s just that simple and also makes me feel really good inside

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Anonymous 12w

Nope. Testing y’all dumbasses for Autism. You are welcome!!

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Anonymous 12w

Honestly, they’re just simply needs to be more signs of who is trouble or not… For example of a guy has an angle bracelet on and is not allowed in a school zone. Maybe that should be a sign.

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Anonymous 12w

Idk

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Anonymous 12w

What if they just went back to the kitchen

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

pretending misogyny doesn’t exist in the west is just stupid and ignorant as hell! Ask the women in your life their experiences with men and actually LISTEN TO THEM. The women in your life should be incredibly disappointed and embarrassed

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Exactly. Sexism still exists in the west and there are so many men today that want to make women cattle again. When we stop fighting sexism in the west that’s when women’s rights start to slip back. We can’t become complacent. Just because it’s better today than it was ten years ago doesn’t mean the problem has been fixed.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

And this comment is exactly why she’s posting in the first place. You are part of the problem.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 12w

The world needs more of this

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

what if it wasn’t women but actually your fault for not being attractive?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Step on a scale then

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

keep being insecure. we all know you get no pussy

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

If you must know the opinions of the women in my family range from basically the same as mine to borderline “men are trash.” Sexism. Women are not a bloc that all share the same opinion. And if you think for a second that there isn’t sexism in the other direction as well you are mistaken. Have the women in my life had bad experiences with men? Absolutely. Have the men in my life (including me.). Had bad experiences with women? Also yes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Also it’s remarkably sexist to assume “the women in my life.” Should be disappointed and embarrassed because my thoughts on sexism and how to handle it are different from yours. They have their own opinions and views completely independent of mine, and your assumption that they all agree with you if I just “LISTEN TO THEM.” Is depriving them of their own opinions. Once again “as I tell my friends when they say something sexist towards women.). Women are not a bloc, don’t act like they are.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Okay and go ahead and compare the severity of those bad experiences.

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 12w

this is why you don’t have a gf

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

AND THEYRE ALL WOMEN AND YOU ARENT😭 tf. Your thoughts on sexism are different bc you aren’t a women and haven’t experienced true sexism. I’m so sorry that “men are trash” really hurts your feelings but I think women have to go thru a lot fucking worse than that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 12w

I have been physically attacked multiple times. Once I was held again a wall while someone groped in my pocket then nearly held back in college for defending myself. Been called a fagot for having long hair (I was 9). Been mercilessly bullied and falsely accused of title 9 and even after it was proven definitively false (like video evidence and multiple witnesses false.). It continued to haunt me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Oh I’m actually engaged already so 😂😂 also this was a joke but apparently I struck a nerve with the weight joke haha

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Anonymous 12w

You just proved my point by being blatantly sexist. “Men can’t experience sexism.” Is an absurdly sexist thing to say. And the line of personal attacks and dismissal based on my sex after just adds to it. If you must know I hold what is considered a very manly job, but I still retain the right to my own opinions, even ones you don’t like.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

those are not sexism that is something inherently different you faced. You were assaulted which is not right, but thats not sexism

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

also stop trauma dumping to strangers its weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

and again being bullied and assaulted id NOT RIGHT TO HAPPEN TO ANYONE. But thats is homophobia and bullying, not because you’re a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

You got 10 rattled

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 12w

i’m not rattled baby🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

“Men can’t face sexism” *says something sexist in the following sentence.*

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Sexism is discrimination “on the bases of sex.” (To borrow a well known phrase.) Of I was bullied for being a man with long hair, that’s sexism. If I was the target of liable for being a man with a different opinion (in this case that men and women should be separated in contact sports like boxing.). That’s sexism. If I was attacked on line and literally told I’m nothing because I am a man saying something you think I shouldn’t…. That’s sexism. Misogyny is discrimination against women.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Sexism is discrimination against one sex by the other. Men can experience sexism. Men can’t experience misogyny just like women can’t experience misandry.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Correction, sexism is discrimination against one sex period. I have met female misogynists and male misandrists. (Weird but there’s a black guy in the klan so what the hey.)

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

sexism is fueled and created by the thousands of years where women are oppressed. Just like how you can’t be racist to a white person, men can’t experience sexism

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

you said you were called gay for having long hair as a man, that is homophobia, not sexism

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 12w

Still not sexist

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

you can cry misandry all you want idc i’m not responding anymore- you will never change my mind that men cannot experience sexism lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

W Ragebait

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

I suppose you’re right, I probably never will change your mind. But you would do well to introspect on your actions a little bit. The angry self justification you are showing is a dangerous trait that will hurt you a lot more than anyone else. And yes “men can’t have long hair because they’re men.” Is sexist. And yes, white people can experience racism.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

I somehow knew this mf was gonna hit the “white people can’t experience racism” card.

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 12w

boo hoo cry about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Well Muslims disliking is kinda valid

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

it is mot sexist. I am not angry, you’re the one typing the long ass whiny paragraphs

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

It’s not sexist to discriminate against someone on the basis of sex? You know what, you tell me what sexism is. Give an alternative definition to the word that isn’t discrimination based on sex.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

its a homohobic comment to assume someone is gay because of their long hair. omg ur so stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

it is not sexist. its homophobic, but not sexist. holy shit. idec yall can believe what you wanna believe. Misandry can hurt men, but misogyny KILLS women

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

That’s a lot of invective, but you still haven’t offered a definition of the term. And I see telling a man (or in this case child.) that he can’t have long hair and be a man as sexist. Just like telling a woman she can’t wear pants and should wear a dress if she wants to be a woman is also sexist. Sex based group A cannot do non biological thing B because of reason they won’t belong to group A. Sexism.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

believe what you want and ill believe what i know, ur wasting ur time

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

You still refuse to define what you’re talking about. You clearly have a definition of what you think sexism is, share it. And in terms of wasting time, I don’t find these conversations to be a waste, it’s interesting to me to talk with people who I disagree with.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

That’s not what you said tho😭 you said you got called a f@g, which is homophobic and now you’re saying something different. Men can experience sexism but typically they get verbal sexism. We deal with that daily. Sexism for yall isn’t what it is for us. Boohoo you got called a f@g, I couldn’t even type all the awful things said to me by men let alone ALL physical things. Almost every woman you ask will have experienced it. Y’all wanna be oppressed to fucking bad.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

Let’s see how long that’ll last 😁

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

i already told you my definition that sexism is long standing oppression, like how women were constantly oppressed for thousands of years??? You can’t be sexist to men when we live in a patriarch, if you’re not going to listen to me theres no point in talking to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Ok so what you’re doing here is seeing something very real and morally wrong, centuries of injustice and various degrees of institutionalization misogyny, and translating that as “sexism.” That’s not a true equivalence nor a correct definition for the word. Sexism as defined means discrimination based on sex. And while past societies have been sexist (mostly against women.). That doesn’t preclude modern people from being sexist in any way.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

And if you look at someone who has experienced real sexism as defined and tell them “you didn’t experience that discrimination. Because in the past people who shared your chromosome structure did bad things.” You’re not only logically incorrect, you are engaging in exactly what you rail justly against. That being discriminatory practices based on sex. The answer to historical sexism is not current and future sexism.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Well the definition says “typically to women” so even the dictionary can see the uneven spread and history of said sexism. Modern ppl can be sexist but it’s still mostly women who experience that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 12w

thank you!! god this guy is dumb

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

i’m not even reading that you simply can’t stand that my view is different lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 12w

The very use of the word “typically.” Proves the fact that sexism against men is by definition possible. The argument here is if men can experience sexism at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Fair enough. I will pray for you and hope you have a good life.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

user 5 leave me alone and keep ur fucking prayers FAR FAR away from me thanks 👍 I don’t want or need your prayers NO THANK YOU

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