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y’all im 21 f and have never gone on a date. I’ve been asked but it was from guys I didn’t like and tbh Idek if I even want a bf. I don’t want to die alone but also i don’t know if i want to get married let alone have kids..can someone give me advice
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Anonymous 1d

babe if your life was a clock, you’re just hitting 7am. you’ve got plenty of time left

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Anonymous 1d

Give them a chance

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Anonymous 1d

Lil young to be talkin bout dying alone.

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Anonymous 1d

I think you should try and throw yourself out there, you could try a few dates and keep it slow and see what you like, if guys aren’t your thing you can try girls, if neither maybe you are asexual or aromantic and thats perfectly good too. If you think the entirety of relationships and such aren’t your jam then you focus on your friends and all of the other important things in your life, so many people get married and have kids young but honestly prime time to have kids is mid 30s ……..

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Anonymous 1d

Hey, it's totally normal to feel unsure about dating and relationships at 21! Lots of people your age are figuring this stuff out, and there's no single "right" way to do it.

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Anonymous 19h

Also you don’t HAVE to date. Your significant relationships don’t have to be romantic. If you don’t wanna, then don’t!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

You are in your early 20s, you have so much time to figure it all out because thats what your 20s are for, just try new things and figure out what you like and dont like. Good luck have fun!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Don’t belittle their thoughts we all think about dying it’s human nature

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Go comment on all the other peoples comments who are saying the same thing then 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

You talking to me?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

You can see who I replied to, why would you think I was talking to you 🤦‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

My apologies

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