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Guys thoughts.. should we or should we not confess my feelings to my guy friend we lived in the same hometown but we transferred to different university after community college I saw him was at a concert at la where he hold my hand and idk im confused😭
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Anonymous 3w

Confess

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Anonymous 3w

If this dude hasn't even reached out to you why are we talking about this? If he hasn't reached out to you him not doing it should be letting you know he's not interested. Him not reaching out to you is an answer

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Anonymous 3w

Why tell him anything if he hasn't called you at all?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

What if he doesn’t feel the same way 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

He most likely does. You in the good old you both like each other but were being too shy to do anything about it, now that it’s a bit late you finally decide you wanna make the move

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

At this point might as well say something, cause girl math says if you like him that much another girl does too or even more than YOU

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

You might be on to something also bruh tell me why the last time I hanged out with him I was gonna give him a letter explaining the lore and I got scared to give it to him also he’s so non chalant which is annoying 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Congrats, at this pace you are getting a one way middle seat ticket to being in the bench at his wedding or stalking his FB wall looking at his amazing mansion, kids, and wife that’s NOT you āœŒļø

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

No dead ass at this point šŸ˜‚ but isn’t this a in person conversation instead of a message 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Well you kind of played yourself so far. Cause you wait and he’ll pop out with the news of his new gf when you see each other again. Then, you’ll become more visible on your feelings and he’ll just think ā€œI have this girl everything for years and she friendzoned me, now I moved on and she finally decides to like me? NA f that she gone from my life foreverā€ and then blocks your goofy ahhhh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Given this girl*

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

If you aren’t planning to be getting with anyone else while telling him this and being with him thought he’ll def do the same and you two will prob end up married. Fun fact every guy will do long distance no matter how far if the girl is worth it and they know she will never play around like a smooth tire brain one

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Okay okay i appreciate your advice!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Ofc, best wishes dawg šŸ’ŖšŸ”„

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

he held your hand lol he feels it a little at the very least

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

That what I’m saying šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

You really what her to end up a just the random wedding list invite damn

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

The hand gesture is one of many signs and details he’s given her about his feelings, keep in mind he knows her so much that he feels he can only do these details hoping she’ll say something. In his mind breaking out the friendzone he sees himself in with her is tough, especially seeing that she hasn’t given any visible responses to his small moves, if she did that would have been a greenlight for him a long time ago

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Dawg they was deadass hanging out together at a concert not too long ago, guy has clearly made small gestures during their time together trying to see how she responds, based on OPs writing she just got shy but in the end didn’t give a visible positive response for him to do anything. At this point that might have been one of if not his last try to be more than friends with her

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Why go through anything if either one of them is too stupid and scared to say anything about how they feel?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Thank you for a whole fucking recap story that I didn't ask for. If I wanted to know the whole story I could've read it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Ay this point she has to take initiative in some ways, cause the guy might start to move elsewhere as he feels she only sees him as a friend when she clearly likes him a lot, I seen so many wonderful relationships not flourishing not happen cause of this. So don’t sell her on who’s the most stubborn game and let her do what her heart is calling her to do āœŒļø

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Sell her on what? Why are you even talking to me?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

And they're fucking stupid. I have no sympathy for anyone that won't even speak up for themselves

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

This has turned into a self ragebait comment, thanks for playing

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

You people are fucking sick

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I can't believe the level of idiocy of people online 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

You people? All she’s doing is asking for help, not everyone has everything figured out, but if they are trying to do so you shouldn’t shut them down, that’s extremely disgusting and terrible of you if you have a conscience. YOU didn’t have to comment anything, but the shell of anonymous mixed with your TikTok brain has you trying to attack someone instead of trying to see they clearly need a small piece of advice. Now whatever they do after is their choice and not ours, good day āœŒļø

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