not everyone has the same feelings about sex that you do. there's nothing wrong with considering it really important (generally) but you either have to consider it part of your standards that a partner has to share the same feeling as you do about it, or learn to get over that other people don't necessarily have your same morals.

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But a sick feeling, like why did he do that? It wasn’t even anything anyways. It was a drunk one night stand righttt before me and him started talking. Again, it’s not an insecure feeling- I know that feeling and it’s not that. I just feel grossed out by it.. sex to me means a lot. I can’t even begin to understand how someone can just get drunk and let it happen kinda deal- idk plz help 🤍

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me and my bf have had zero issues at all since we started dating and have been very open and communicative about everything. but knowing he slept with this one girl is still making me sick to my stomach. he’s given me no reason to be upset about it or untrustworthy- I know this is a me issue. She’s best friends with my bf’s friend (which is a girl as well) so she’s always around. We’ve talked about my feelings before- but I just hate feeling it in the first place. It’s not an insecure feeling

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