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how am i supposed to feel any ounce of beauty in a world of porn addicted men
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Anonymous 13w

Get off of social media, the men who are active the most on social media are usually the most mentally ill and hateful and gross. When you go outside and talk to normal people you realize that that people are much nicer than you thought. The internet is full of gross loud minorities, including gross men.

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Anonymous 13w

Ignoring the gross men in these responses, I genuinely dont understand the question. What does the porn addicted individuals of the world have to do with you feeling beautiful? (Im being serious please help me understand what you are asking)

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Anonymous 13w

The stats show that it’s overwhelmingly women who are hypergamistic - men are the ones increasingly left with porn as the only option because women demand “6 figs, 6 inches, 6 feet” without any shred of awareness that it’s less than like 0.2% of America that have all 3.

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Anonymous 13w

Remember that when you cucking in a hotel chair

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13w

it's hard to find love and feel loved when you're constantly being compared to other women online. not to mention the effects it has on a man's libido and sex life; when your boyfriend can't get hard because he jerks it to pornography, it doesn't make me as a woman feel pretty!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Not in asshole way, but the clearest lookslike just avoid those men. Im not blaming women for the issue because men face it to its just that the only solution (apart from just straight up erasing porn from the internet) is just avoid those men. I promise most normal men find their gf to be the most beautiful person to ever breathe.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 13w

what stats? besides social media😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13w

it's just hard to find those men, not because they don't exist, but because you have to wait months, maybe even years before you discover if a man even has one. after a few times you can't just openly trust them, and that's toxic idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Thats not really toxic. Its hard to open with people after feeling hurt and undesired, but risk is what relationships are. Its hard and scary and painful, but its also easy and lovely and peaceful. Idk, its like shrodingers relationship. It will be the last one or just another shitty stepping stone, but its worth the risk to feel true love from another person

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

We live in era of AI and Google. Stop being lazy. But I’ll kick you off, the CDC says only 0.5% of men the USA make the 666 rule

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 13w

How can women be hypergamistic and also not dating most men? You can’t hate women and have conflicting reasons why you hate women. Go outside, I promise they’re a lot more pleasant once you talk to them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 13w

Hypergamistic means women date up, never sideways or down. Sweet Jesus, use Google or AI. Embarrassing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 13w

Okay let’s say that’s true. Where are all the guys with 3 or more girlfriends? Because frankly that is pretty rare or unheard of. I have seen plenty of dudes however that are fat and ugly that have a hot girlfriend, and I’ve seen plenty of good looking dudes just have no luck. You either have game or you don’t bud, and it sounds like you don’t. Stop basing your self worth on women and just be yourself man. I promise you’ll connect with people you actually like.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 13w

simplest yet best advice OAT thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

That statistic didn’t prove your point at all btw. If 0.5% of men make the 6,6,6 rule, then there’s not a large dating pool for women. And you keep referring to statistics but refuse to provide any because you know there isn’t any data to back up what you’re saying. What you’re saying is based in misogyny. “Hypergamy” and “women dating up” are incel beliefs.

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