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As a girl, how do I go up to a guy that has the same interests as me and I want to be friends with without him thinking I’m flirting
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Anonymous 10h

If a guy can’t handle just being friends with you I don’t think you need to associate with him personally Like even when I like someone romantically I still want to be friends with them regardless Just talk to people in places where you know people will share your interests, like clubs, cons, events, etc

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Anonymous 13h

Tell him exactly what you are thinking and tell him up front that it won’t lead to anything

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Anonymous 10h

Say something like hey friend when u approch them! That should make it clear right

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Anonymous 12h

You can’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10h

So I’m cooked basically

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10h

Like over half of my friends are women and they are some of the best friends I’ve ever had

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10h

Yeah when I was younger most of my friends were guys because we had the same interests but now I’m always in places with girls so I don’t have as many guy friends now. Someone in one of my classes plays my instrument and he seems super cool but idk if it would be weird or not since it was something he said as an icebreaker a week ago and not directly to me

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