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Anyone else having a hard time finding genuine connections with people as a girl? I’m now a sophomore and still can’t seem to find my people. No I don’t want to take photos and drink, I just want someone to go on adventures and hike with! :)
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Anonymous 3w

You will find your people, it’s takes time. You will fine people that you vibe with when the time is right. Take care of you’re self and put out the energy you want to attract

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Anonymous 3w

I need people, we should be friends fr

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Anonymous 3w

I think technology is killing our feelings as well too

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Anonymous 3w

Let’s be friends plz

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Anonymous 3w

i know im only a freshman but i feel like the one friend i made is only my friend when we’re in class. we don’t really talk outside of that. i really want friends to do side quests with

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Anonymous 3w

That’s really true and real and I relate so much

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Anonymous 3w

Oh man, me too! I have like two friends rn and one of them can’t hike most of the time. The other one loves hiking and camping but we only have one hiking trail :(

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Anonymous 3w

that’s so realll that’s all i want

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Anonymous 3w

Same it’s so hard to make connections with other girls, just because I care about their opinion that much more. I just want silly girl talk and to be able to rely on each other for close and special things, or just fun hangouts and hikes !!

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Anonymous 3w

As a guy it’s the same for us! But it gets better :)

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Anonymous 3w

I commute so I get this

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Anonymous 3w

Dm me girl

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Anonymous 3w

I would’ve loved that

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Anonymous 3w

Omg same can we pls be friends😭 i just wanna go explore and have girl time!!

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Anonymous 3w

Join an outing club?

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Anonymous 3w

Yes, I feel so cliche just wanting stuff like that since everyone else wants to drink and party

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Anonymous 3w

Omg real I just want to hike the Nolan trail and explore NN

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Anonymous 3w

ughh yes anyone down for a group chat on snap or smthn? everyone in this thread seems cool :)

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Anonymous 3w

so true!

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Anonymous 3w

Wait same and I love hiking!

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Anonymous 3w

Understandable I am a senior and still can’t find where I fit. I don’t do hikes, but I do like to do stuff outdoors. I like going on little adventures.

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Anonymous 3w

I don’t think I ever tried very hard to find friends in college. Or keep them. Plus I was a bit of an asshole once to one of them I did make

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Anonymous 3w

Facts

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Anonymous 3w

Having same problem

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Anonymous 3w

Join your schools hiking club if you have one! Those people that you can talk and walk with are the best people and conversations that are endless but effortless are peak!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

No cause that’s real it’s just every time I get close to someone it blows in my face so I’ve been timid and kinda shut down trying to find friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

It may take until your 30’s to find your found-family. Just be positive and understand that people will come and go when the time is right. Don’t be hard on yourself💖

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Yea even my mom says grown women act like children so it’s really just like you said people will come and go but eventually I’ll find my people. It’s just annoying my bf has a social life and I’ll tag along but obviously every girl wants the one friend she can always hang with

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

I agree with this!!Plus,most people from 20-25 are pretty immature and think drinking and clubbing is living.Be patient for sure and be smart.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 3w

Let’s be friends!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 3w

Omg yes please!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 3w

I’m a junior and it’s so hard to make friends when ur not in a sorority :( I wanna go out and take Pilates classes and go to the gym with someone

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 3w

same!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 3w

So ur not in Greek life?

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 3w

I’m planning on doing a Pilates class alone on Sunday if you wanna go together 🙈

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 3w

i would love to but unfortunately i have work 😞😞

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 3w

Ugh Where do you work?

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 3w

vera bradley at tanger

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 3w

Is that in Oxford? Have fun girl :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 3w

Same!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 3w

Dm me!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 3w

Yes!! Dm me

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 3w

Omg let’s be friends :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 3w

I love the cliche type of stuff it’s just so much more genuine

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

Dm me!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Omg me too. Like crafting nights or just dressing up or doing each others nails

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 3w

me im down !! zoe.vaill

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Anonymous 3w

wanna be friends??

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 3w

We should make a gc girlies

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 3w

Yes!!! press_grace

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 3w

let’s be friends plsss

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 3w

yess me too pls

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 3w

Yes! Dm me!

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 3w

yarimarim

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

So are we making a group chat? I’m a guy but I’d love more friends :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 3w

I’m going to make one! Add me on snap and I’ll add you to it!

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 3w

Nice!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Hm

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 2w

hi me too!! dm me!

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 2w

hi me too :((

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