Why would you stop masturbating, it's healthy. I suggest therapy if there's some sort of mental block where you have guilt or shame associated with it. If you're in any groups that are making you feel wrong or dirty for a natural part of having a body, you need to leave those groups. I'd never sleep with a man who doesn't jack off like. If your sex drive so low that jerking off is optional, it's definitely too low to keep up with me