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Serious question please help: I have a date coming up (I’m 22, male). It’s my first date due to my introverted antisocial behavior. I already know that I’m going to be nervous and it won’t make the date go as well as I’d like it to go… 👇
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Anonymous 1w

Nervousness is natural dude there’s no need to apologize just for how you’re feeling. “Be confident” isn’t really clear advice so rather give yourself some grace it doesn’t have to be perfect and it doesn’t even have to be good. Worst case it’s practice and a good story

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Anonymous 1w

I feel you I’m in the same boat one year older and I’ve finally found someone I click with

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Anonymous 1w

How do I tell her without making it weird? Should I just say right away “hey, I don’t do this a lot so I’m a little nervous”. Or should I wait for the end, see what happens, then say “I had fun, sorry if I seemed nervous, I don’t do this often”.

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Anonymous 1w

Okay first breathe & detach from the outcome.Just know if it does fail there’s other women in the world this isn’t the only one

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Anonymous 1w

It's not a sin you need to confess. It's not your fault.

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Anonymous 1w

Just enjoy your time, the right person oversees your nervousness, it also all depends if the girls reciprocates the same vibe… she could be just a dry person that adds no contribution at that point you’d be safer assuming shes the problem… be authentic, be you!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

No…none of that. Don’t mention you’re nervous at all

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