I read “partners” as “parents” and was shocked how many of y’all were monitoring that

33

“I don’t allow” sounds a bit too harsh… that being said, it is clear that we are under the clear understanding it’s unacceptable.

14

porn is my main and most harsh boundary because i’ve had bad experiences with letting it fly in the past. it’s not necessarily the porn itself but if a man can’t stop himself from looking at other women then i don’t want him. so idk if this sounds bad but it’s kind of a test for me if someone responds badly to that boundary or “tries” and just can’t stop it tells me a lot about them and how setting boundaries might go in the future.

10

It depends for me and my partner, due to our beliefs and wanting to wait till marriage, she doesn’t watch porn, just the videos i send her that she asks for , only fans is an absolute no, bc you’re paying to see someone else’s body, we both prefer to watch videos of each other, porn is pretty fair game, but ofc if some boundaries are being tested she knows she can say something

5

i feel like i wouldn’t be upset or mad if i found out if my man does watch pork but giving money to another girl and specifically like choosing her absolutely tf not ur not giving anyone ur money for anything like that i can make u all the content they can tf

3

Don’t care

3

I allow them to watch porn is diff from the other options meaning that you have no boundaries with what they watch.

1

only if we watch together

1

I used to do OF and my partner only watches my content 🥰 I watch one specific couple's porn. It doesn't matter to me if my partner did watch anything else as long as it's not a creepy category & doesn't throw off our groove

1

i cannot imagine caring this much (or caring at all lowkey tbh) about what my partner watches on his own time. how fucking insecure are you people

0

Wtf It’s none of her business if I watch porn or not

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Control freak much

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