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if a girl can’t have sex ever, how likely is it/how could she find a guy who’d genuinely be fine w that and go all the way with her (ex. marriage, maybe adopt kids)
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Anonymous 1d

There’s guys who don’t want sex. Your dating pool is smaller, but I promise you it still exists

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Anonymous 1d

I’m a med student so I’m curious on why you say you “can’t have sex ever”?

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Anonymous 1d

Gotta find u a Sheldon

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Anonymous 1d

I’m a therapist It’s way more common than you think

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Anonymous 1d

You'll be okay! Lots of men are asexual and don't want sex, others are perfectly okay putting that part of their lives aside in favor of a long-lasting love with someone.

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Anonymous 1d

Hold up I just read your explanation of why and uh, what about other stuff? Sure there are lots of guys who wouldn’t be satisfied w/o vaginal sex but there are PLENTY of dudes who would hear about a life of bjs, hjs, titfucking, etc and rejoice. Could get creative w toys too like a fleshlight b/w your thighs or using it on him. There are options for you is what I’m saying. You’ll find your guy

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Anonymous 1d

There are also guys who would be okay with an open relationship. Love and companionship with you and safe physical encounters with others. Open honest communication is essential though.

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Anonymous 1d

Depends on what you’re looking for. Would you ever consider an open relationship? If it’s not for you, there’s no forcing it to work, but for some people that kind of a thing makes sense.

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Anonymous 1d

Hey if you wanna dm I’d be down

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Anonymous 1d

The only guys who don’t want sex are either sick, dead or lying.

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Anonymous 1d

Just get used to being single.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

might not want it or injuries

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

just curious, where might that dating pool exist or where can I look? or would it rlly just have to be by chance at some point

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

physically underdeveloped - would need surgery/pt to have sex but it costs a lot and i’m not ready to go thru that rn and never thought that’d be the only reason to have a surgery

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Ohh :( thoughts and prayers 🙏🏼

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

You probably want to filter for asexual guys on common dating apps. Asexual dating apps don’t have that many users rn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

You do have other ways to please a guy so maybe all hope is not lost.

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