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romantically attracted to men but sexually attracted to women, what am i?? i’m so confused
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Anonymous 18h

I mean you can recognize that people are attractive without wanting to be in a relationship with them. If you wanted to be really technical you could say biromantic but i think sexual attraction would be more defining for a sexuality

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Anonymous 17h

are you a guy?

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Anonymous 17h

If you’re a girl then you’re Bisexual heteroromantic. That’s what I am!! If you’re a guy then I guess bisexual homoromantic. Don’t feel bad about it. I’ve tried to get feelings for women but I just can’t so while I hook up with women sometimes, I only date men. What’s also interesting is that I specifically HATE French kissing women on the mouth😭 it feels like a tongue and spit in my mouth vs “we’re connecting and this is so hot” when I kiss guys.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Like for me theres dudes i think are attractive and i appreciate that, but i dont want to be with them at all. I think most people can appreciate both sexes looks but that does differ from actual attraction if that makes sense?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

I think you have your romantic and sexuals mixed up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

? I literally don’t. I’m bisexual: attracted sexually to both sexes And I’m heteroromantic: I only have romantic feelings for the opposite sex.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

From their post, they said theyre only sexually attracted to women with (implied) romantic feelings for both sexes. Thats biromantic and either heterosexual or homosexual (depending on OPs gender)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

If that’s your issue then they never implied that they have romantic feelings for both. They only mentioned having romantic attraction to men. Pls learn to comprehend what you read instead of trying to correct someone with bs.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

thank you!! this seems to be pretty much the same situation I’m in

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