
Fine with being friends but dating idk… I’ve had my fair share of DL men who I’ve dated (I can tell later they weren’t straight cuz he told me he didn’t like women’s parts openly) but during they would always fetishized me or try to show me off to their guy friends. They were secretly very misogynistic and liked men a lot more emotionally. So I personally wouldn’t want to date a bi guy because I’d have to wonder if he is really into me or not and I rly don’t want to worry about that.
Not saying that all openly bi men will turn out & be like the DL men but it’s just a reason of why I wouldn’t swing that way because the experiences they have with men emotionally and physically would kind of throw me off 😭 I feel like I wouldn’t know how to be in my feminine if that makes sense?