Ask Anything on Yik Yak | I 21M have found myself romantically involved with an 18F, for context I was under the assumption that we were both low level college students, I’m behind a little and she’d be a freshman, I just NOW learned she’s a senior in HS. Am I cooked?

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I 21M have found myself romantically involved with an 18F, for context I was under the assumption that we were both low level college students, I’m behind a little and she’d be a freshman, I just NOW learned she’s a senior in HS. Am I cooked?

Anonymous 6d

Oof

Anonymous 6d

A junior in college and a highschool senior have little in common. Even if you think you do. Revisit the situation in a 4 years when you both graduate.

Anonymous 6d

i feel like you should reevaluate the relationship, like, check in with yourself and her about how things are working and what they might look like in the future. you go through a LOT of emotional maturation between 18 and 21, so as the relationship progresses, you both might become very different people than how you were when you met, which can complicate things because you already have an established relationship.

Anonymous 6d

NO SHE'S 18

Anonymous

#1 6d

Note to self don’t just assume people on dating apps are out of high school, I usually have my age preferences set higher than that but I guess I didn’t and didn’t notice her age. We matched and unluckily went a long time being romantically involved without knowing each others academic history, I already like adjusted and accepted the fact that she was 18 but this just makes it weirder I think😭

Anonymous

#2 6d

Not a junior in college, I’m behind, credit wise I’d be a freshman.

Anonymous

#3 6d

I understand, I hate how this all came out now, because I do like her a lot.

Anonymous

#4 6d

Well yeah, but she’s also in home room😭

Anonymous

OP 6d

So what?

Anonymous

#4 6d

It comes off as a little predatory outside in man

Anonymous

OP 6d

What's worse is what y'all call predatory now?

Anonymous

#4 6d

I mean a stabilized 21 year old and a naive 18 year old can be bad, and predatory I’m just thankful that’s not how it is in my case

Anonymous

OP 6d

I love the adjectives you used to negate a sitch

Anonymous

#4 6d

18 yr olds in highschool are still basically kids.. im in hs and seniors are legit kids like they’re immature. My brother matured a lot through those ages, there is a difference

Anonymous

#5 6d

I love yours as well

Anonymous

#4 6d

Huh?

Anonymous

#5 6d

Yeah I’m also lost😭

Anonymous

#5 6d

I love the same amount of bullshit you gave like the other person

Anonymous

OP 6d

Y'all both can stay lost

Anonymous

#4 6d

What bs did I give?? I’m a hs student bro 😭😭 ik how they act

Anonymous

#4 6d

They’re rlly not these full grown ppl

Anonymous

OP 6d

Bro this is some like full grown man prob saying that 18 yr olds in hs are mature 😭 idk what he’s saying like the seniors in my school make 67 jokes

Anonymous

#5 6d

This dumb shit is why y'all can stay lost. Keep on making any bullshit up you'd like

Anonymous

#4 6d

Bruhhh tell me what I’m making up

Anonymous

#5 6d

Your goofy ass telling me I'm a man. We can start with that. You DK shit

Anonymous

#5 6d

I just typed she's 18. All the other shit you two goofy fucks made up

Anonymous

#4 6d

Why r u so mad 😭😭 and r u slow? Use ur brain for a sec. I said SENIORS. Seniors in hs are 18. And if ur a woman then gross…

Anonymous

#4 6d

Like I meant gross that ur trying to justify this

Anonymous

#5 6d

Maturity wise I would assume she’s 19, HS Senior caught me off guard completely, it’s not like overall maturity I’m worried about, it’s the emotional maturity and stability that comes from that. I know I wasn’t emotionally mature at 18, hell I’d argue I still have a long way to go at 21, my life also didn’t really start until 18 so I really am far behind and if I were to date in my classes at school, I’d be dating 18-19 year olds, but the difference is that’s college not highschool😭

Anonymous

OP 6d

Yes I agree with it idk what the #4 person is yapping about

Anonymous

#5 6d

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Anonymous

#5 6d

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Anonymous

#4 6d

Ur not ragebaiting anyone