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i have a dad who’s genuinely an ass all the times and even though it’s the consequences of his own actions i can’t help but feel guilty knowing the whole family hates him. idk how to move on when he has no respect or any intention to listen to me
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Anonymous 12w

What he do

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Anonymous 12w

YO. Do we have the same dad 😭😭😭😭 we need to talk lol

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Anonymous 12w

I think it might help to imagine if someone else you cared about was in your situation. Like if your close friend had a dad who treated them like this, would you tell them to stick around? Probably not, right? Treat yourself with that same care and respect. And if he can’t give you that same care and respect, he doesn’t deserve your time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

he’s been emotionally neglectful all my life, refused to look over any school related forms, refused to have conversations with me, guilt trips the family for using his money, but also forces me to take days off my job because whenever he needs something done it’s a “family emergency”, thinks college educated women are stuck up and constantly tells me i’ll be a terrible wife, and yet he believes that he’s entitled to be taken care of when he grows old

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

omg i’m so sorry for your loss

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