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So my gf told me a few days ago that she doesn’t and never wants kids. She said she doesn’t want to deal with the symptoms and effects it has on her. And i totally agree with her but idk. I always visualized my future with my wife and kids.check comments
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Anonymous 1w

If you disagree now you will probably stay that way, so dig deep and make she’s more important than that dream If that’s still your dream, you gotta call it. The resentment will be so much worse staying together and be bad

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Anonymous 1w

She asked me what my thoughts on it were and how I felt. I told her the truth that I wasn’t ok with it but respected her decision. Now I’m wondering if it was the right decision for us or the wrong decision for myself. Any advice?

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Anonymous 1w

What about adoption? or like a surrogate

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Anonymous 1w

If you want kids then you need to stop this now knowing the other person doesn't

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Anonymous 1w

Kids suck!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I believe she is more important to me than future kids. As something as serous as this, I wouldn’t want to lose her over it.

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