Sometimes these things aren’t black and white. They’re valid to feel upset and violated but it’s not necessarily all your fault either. You both were drunk so that kind of makes it a mutual error. Don’t beat yourself up over what’s been done. Just learn from it moving forward.

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If you were both blacked out how do you know it happened? Did whoever told you get any more context or did they know what happened?

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I wouldn’t think twice about it

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It’s mutual tho, that’s was also on their end

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With that being said, who’s to say that they didn’t give consent? Not like either of you can truly remember

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Explain as best you can to them and any mutual friends, say you’re sorry, and let the dice fall where they may. It’s not your fault. It was a mutual mistake

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