
Wanting kids for the sole purpose of passing on your genes would be scientific eugenics. Trying to create a family so there’s more good people in the world, so that you have people you love unconditionally, that love you unconditionally, allegedly creates a new phase of neurogenesis in your brain and gets you thinking beyond yourself.
I think it’s really thoughtful you see your life experiences and know that any children you have will likely suffer the same way if they inherited those same life changing genes. There’s plenty of children in need of homes who would really benefit from your perspective and understanding if they are struggling with something similar.
No. My bf and I both have some serious health issues and we decided to not have kids with each other in the future. We’ll adopt or foster if we feel the itch to have kids (currently not interested) but we’re too screwed up health wise to want to make someone else ever deal with what we have to.