Anonymous #2 5d

Funny, we exchanged christmas presents and the other dude didn’t and now she’s into him more. Dating literally makes no sense anymore…

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Anonymous OP 5d

careful, ur peeking into incel territory...

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Anonymous OP 5d

Dating isn’t all that confusing, she just doesn’t want you bro 😭

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Anonymous #6 5d

You realize it’s not someone’s choice in being an incel.

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Anonymous OP 5d

yes, the "in" in incel means involuntary. But, acting like one IS a choice. And a very bad one. Its a self perpetuating cycle. You won't get anywhere with someone if you treat them like they owe you something.

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Anonymous OP 5d

Incel confirmed

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Doesn’t work if your a sub 3

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Anonymous OP 5d

It’s never over don’t give up, this life is all you have there’s no reason you should sit and let life trample over you

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Anonymous OP 5d

Just let it go. Sometime it doesn’t work out. Don’t perseverate or obsess over her. There are others out there.

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Anonymous OP 5d

bro she just doesn’t want you. like da if she never got back to you about dates or anything she is just using you and stringing you along. do you pay for dates?? pay for when you guys eat together?? pay for other stuff for her?? like da you just had to get the hint ngl. i talked to this girl for 2-3 weeks. 4-5 days actually hungout. and every hangout was only talking and a meal. we talked for over 6 hours every hangout. fast forward a month and a half and she’s now my girl. da sleeping

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Anonymous OP 5d

sleeping on ft as i’m replying to you. and i read you mentioned you exchanged gifts and that dude didn’t. exactly my point. like i just know you were spending money on her before. does she show interest or try?? like text first, like does she or you initiate meeting up? does she know you guys are dating? that dude probably spends no bread on her but makes her laugh and entertains her. that was da just me and my girl. i never bought her anything besides pay for lunch or if we bought drinks.

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Anonymous #10 5d

Easy there big guy…. She may not be leading him on in any selfish way. Maybe she just wants to be friends with him. If that’s the case, it’s ok. Accept it or not. You don’t need to make her out to be some kind of “user” for meals, etc. sometimes people just aren’t romantically or sexually attracted. It happens. If you can’t be open to being friends with people without strings attached, life can suck.

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Anonymous #10 5d

Be yourself like this guy said. Don’t try to buy acceptance or friendship. Just look forward to meeting people and hanging out. You’ll be surprised how many people find that refreshing.

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Anonymous #2 5d

i never said specifically using him for things. he said they are “dating “ so i assumed they spoke about it. when you are dating, you are going out on dates and seeing each other not as a friends. it’s the period of getting to know each other, and is usually talked about before “dating”. it’s been over a month, so he should know whether she wants to be just friends or not. i never said she was a bad person, hence why him saying “she’s not worth it” is false

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Anonymous #2 5d

also i posted both those comments. literally me and my girl, were hanging out as just friends when we first met. it started off as 4 ppl in a bio group for some project in an upper div class. me and her were only ones who actually connected and hung out casually. We da just sit in the car for hours talking. after like 2 weeks, i got an i kiss you text. and then i was like i have feelings too, then we texted let’s meet tomorrow and talk about. then we started dating for like 3-4 weeks. to get to

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Anonymous #2 5d

“i miss you text”. - but we just got know each other even more. until we realized we wanted to be a couple. like initially i thought she was attractive yes, but i didn’t think anything was going to happen and i never talked to her to try and get in her pants. our personalities just connected more and more each hangout

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Anonymous #10 5d

Good for you. Sounds like things are going great for you.

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Anonymous #2 5d

yea things are amazing actually. like she jsut went on vacation after finals, and came back today, and wants to meet tmrrw. and exactly like you said, op should meet to just be friends and hangout. both of us tried to hang out with the other 2 from our group. one just wasn’t in to it, and the other actually became our friend. like we would go to his dorm and chill many times, he didn’t even know we were dating until we actually became a couple

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Anonymous #10 5d

Well… just ease into it. Hope it continues to go well

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