Ask Anything on Yik Yak | Ladies let this sink in if you’re wanting to be a stay at home mom etc. The more a job pays, the more time needed for said job, typically. Meaning your man can’t spend as much time with you or your kids. Do you really want that?

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Ladies let this sink in if you’re wanting to be a stay at home mom etc. The more a job pays, the more time needed for said job, typically. Meaning your man can’t spend as much time with you or your kids. Do you really want that?

Anonymous 1w

Many of them don’t realize that being a sahm is a full time job with constant overtime

Anonymous 1w

Whole post reads like one person made it lol. Man I hate isn’treal

Anonymous 3d

The equation is all messed up. Generally a family needs to start somewhere and the energy isn’t there to build it up for a better living standards. Granted that the economy is bad compared to previous decades but there are things that overwhelm people too easily like using their parents to raise their own kids thus the grandparents become parents to the grand kids.

Anonymous 3d

So overall it’s to accept the bad economy and coordinate how to get the living standard and know it takes to build up. But the reality for people is they want to start out with no risk and that vacation to France.

Anonymous

#1 1w

Yes and to me, a guy, I want a partner who wants to work together with the raising kids and providing financially. I don’t want to be the dad who can’t make my kids band concert because of a work thing for example. We can both raise our kids, and I will actually help, as well as both build income so we can both retire comfortably earlier

Anonymous

#1 1w

My ex was happy at $37k and I made $43k but now make $70k. She has no desire to move up etc or anything and was upset at me for being a little annoyed that I almost double her at 23 and she is happy where she’s at

Anonymous

#3 3d

Exactly and I wanted to work together. My ex on the other hand didn’t and said I couldn’t provide. She wanted me to carry 80%ish of the financial burden while she makes 37k. That’s just unrealistic and just selfish entitlement

Anonymous

OP 3d

I studied this closely as I observed people. The kind of guy she is looking for won’t go for her because that guy will marry a woman of another family with the same money or more. So it’s like some gambler hooping to win in Vegas. Since the odds are so bad, any person of wealth will be ugly and or very toxic to avoid paying bills.

Anonymous

#3 3d

Well she is married💀 8 months after a breakup from a 2 year relationship

Anonymous

OP 3d

Did she enforce her living standard rule?

Anonymous

#3 3d

Wanting to own and rent properties out while making 37k yeah every much so…

Anonymous

#3 3d

Very*💀 But yeah her father makes $200k+. That was at one point more than both my parents combined

Anonymous

OP 3d

Hhmm that is like a president or vice president level salary or a specialist like a scientist. Hard to get those jobs now so I wonder how she continues with that equation. Because all that is left is aristocratic kind of families. That’s the third world status when key families control most of the economy.

Anonymous

#3 3d

Yeah it’s very much pathetic of her. I would never want my partner to carry 80% of the financial burden because it’s such a selfish entitled ass mindset. Plus I want to be a fucking present father for my kids. Not some father who’s never home and is always traveling or on work calls.

Anonymous

#3 3d

That’s not standards, that’s just you wanting to have everything handed to you and being a selfish bitch Man I needed to say that

Anonymous

OP 3d

The game is rigged. The only way to win is not to play.